There is a common misconception that safety is found in small numbers. Parents often feel more comfortable leaving their children in a small, tight-knit church or a local nonprofit than in a sprawling megachurch.
However, this sense of intimacy is exactly what can make smaller organizations more vulnerable to abuse. While megachurches often struggle with impersonality, small organizations struggle with informality. And for a predator, informality is the perfect hiding place.
Can You Just Trust People You Know?
In a large institution, bureaucracy acts as a safety net. There are human resource departments, legal teams, and standardized protocols. If you want to volunteer in the nursery of a church with 5,000 members, you expect to show ID, wear a badge, and pass a background check. It is impersonal, but it is secure.
In a church of 100 people, the dynamic is different. If a long-standing member wants to help with the youth group, asking for a background check can feel like an insult. The leadership thinks, “We don’t need to screen Bob; he has been an usher since 1995.” This reliance on relational trust rather than policy creates a massive blind spot.
Predators thrive in this environment. They know that in a small organization, their “good guy” reputation serves as a master key. They can build social capital with the families and the board, knowing that their friends will be hesitant to suspect them. The community’s refusal to believe that one of their own could be dangerous is the predator’s greatest asset.
Who Controls Smaller Churches?
Another distinct vulnerability in smaller organizations is the power structure. In many small churches or nonprofits, the true authority rests with the “pillars” of the organization. These are the long-term elders, the founding families, or the primary donors.
This dynamic creates a culture of silence. If a volunteer raises a concern about a “pillar” of the community, they are often shut down to preserve the peace. The desire to maintain harmony in a small family-like environment often overrides the necessity of investigating red flags.
Smaller Churches Don’t Change as Frequently
Large organizations are often used to change. They update policies, restructure departments, and implement new software regularly. Smaller organizations usually run on tradition, which can be dangerous.
For example, if a leader in a small organization tries to implement abuse prevention policies, such as the “two-adult rule” or mandatory reporting training, they often face resistance. Long-time volunteers may view these changes as bureaucratic overreach or a lack of trust. This adherence to the status quo makes it difficult to modernize safety standards until it is too late.
Professional vs. Relational Guardrails
Safety requires a level of detached skepticism that is hard to maintain with your close friends. To protect children effectively, small organizations must learn to separate their community life from their safety protocols. They must be willing to risk offending a friend to protect a child. By adopting the professional standards of larger entities, small groups can keep their intimacy without sacrificing their security.
Watch this video with former security leader Bob Wild for more information.
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